We all would like to have good relationships with our children, no matter what their age is. We would like to have open communication, where they would tell us their fears, anxieties, and problems so that we can protect them or advise them better.
However, the reality is that this noble goal is hard to achieve. Children sometimes are ashamed or scared to tell us what’s going on with them. They still haven’t learned to tell the difference between something that will get them punished from something that will get them in danger, and thus they keep quiet about it. Other times, they just think it’s fun to keep us in the dark.
Teenagers belong to a different category altogether. They may know that they are going through something difficult but they don’t want to tell us because they want to feel independent. They may also think that we are out of date, stupid, ignorant, or just incompetent when compared to them. And yes, they sometimes keep quiet just to avoid being punished. In their minds, they think they will come up with a way of solving the problem and thus there’s no need for us to know about it. Lastly, some teenagers think that any parent meddling is an attempt to dominate them or to take away their “freedom.”
Unfortunately, some parents don’t help the situation by doing exactly what their kids are afraid of, instead of solving the problem first.
This is where a Symbian phone spy program could really help. It would satisfy a parent who is concerned about the security of his or her children without any of those endless discussions that always end badly.
By installing a Symbian phone spy on a child’s smart phone, the parent can know several things. Perhaps chief among them is being able to know where the child is. As you must know if you’re a parent, a child’s phone is precious to him or her and is taken everywhere. Therefore, you can just log into the webpage of the Symbian phone spy software and see the location of the phone in a map, and thus the location of the child.
A Symbian phone spy program can also let you know who is contacting your child. If you have forbidden him or her to see a certain person, you can find out if that person is being contacted with the phone. Alternatively, you can know if a person is stalking your child.
That’s only two things of many that a Symbian phone spy program can do, but the real magic, is that you don’t have to rely on your child for information anymore.