Ok, before I tell my story, I’ll explain a bit what Symbian phone spy software is. First of all, all smart phones run on a specific operating system (think Windows vs Mac). The Symbian operating system is the most popular operating system for smart phones. Almost 1 in 2 telephones runs on it.
Symbian phone spy software is a program that allows you to monitor the activity of a phone that runs on the Symbian operating system. Once installed on the phone, you go to the webpage of the Symbian phone spy software and you get information about the phone, such as the numbers that it has called, what the text messages that the phone has received say, where the phone is located on real time, etc.
That’s what Symbian phone spy software does. I never thought I would use it, but I did.
Before getting married, I had a lot of problems with my family. Basically, I got discriminated because I´m a woman. My brothers had all the freedom and things they wanted. I had to stay at home because I was a girl. I also received female oriented presents for Christmas, whether I had asked for them or not.
Getting out of my family’s house and being with someone that loved me were a couple of reasons why I decided to get married. Nevertheless, I still was very insecure. When my husband got a promotion that required him to travel a lot, I pretended to put up a happy front, but in reality, it was killing me inside. I was afraid that he’d meet someone else, or that he’d take advantage of the trips to have an affair. After all, if I loved and admired him, wouldn’t other girls?
It was about this time that I heard about Symbian phone spy software. In my insecurity, I went and bought a Symbian run phone and installed the software on it. I gave it to him as a present next time he came and the moment he left again, I started to monitor him.
Well, for the next few days, I found… nothing. I kept looking and looking but found nothing that showed him he was being unfaithful.
It was until then that I realized that it was all in my head and that I had serious self-esteem issues. I de-activated the software and started taking therapy.
Today, I’m happy to say that I’m much more secure about me and my man. I sometimes regret using the program on him, but in retrospective, maybe that’s what I needed to see how bad I was.